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Questions Frequently Asked by Young People - Evng. Edwin Quaye

Is it good or better to have sex with your boyfriend or girlfriend after six years of dating


SOLUTION

First of all, let's identity who we are; we're CHRISTIAN BELIEVERS!


Next, let's see what the Bible says about sex before marriage...

The bible calls it fornication!


Let's go through some scriptures...


Ephesians 5:3 

" But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you, as becometh saints;"


It should not be mentioned, even once, so, we immediately know that we are not supposed to engage in any sexual activity before marriage.


Next, let's see the implications of fornication...


1 Corinthians  6:13

 "Meats for the belly, and the belly for meats: but God shall destroy both it and them. Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body.


 1 Corinthians 6:18

 "Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body."


Now, we know that the body is not for fornication but for the Lord. We also learned that, it is sin against our own bodies.


Now, let's see the end of fornicators...


1 Corinthians  6:9-10

 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, 10Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God."


Now, we know that fornicators shall not inherit the kingdom of God, so after all these I think you should reconsider any decision which has to do with engaging in any form of sexual activity before marriage with your boyfriend or girlfriend.


I know how you feel but try and endure till marriage.

Its not the length of dating that validates you both for sex!



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